If you know specifically what you want, Lowes and Home Depot are good places to go to get it. They have terrific prices. DO NOT, however, ask for any kind of advice! I've heard so many horror stories, even from HD and Lowes associates themselves, I can't even count!! If you have any questions on tile, your best bet is to do just as you're doing now-- come to the forums and look up a pro. You've got a much better chance of getting the straight "dope".
In answer to the question of going over laminate, it's risky, but can be done so long as som prerequisites are met.
> It can't have a raised drip edge, or rounded edge.
> It can't have rounded corners. All corners must be square.
> The laminate must be in good shape i.e.-- no cuts, breaks, chips or holes of any kind. This includes holes that would be made by using a backerboard over the laminate!
Just scuff up the laminate with an orbital sander and use a unmodified thinset with a liquid latex additive instead of water.